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’50 Shades Of Grey’ disaster round up

In Carnal Catastrophes on January 28, 2013 at 10:22 am

With the soccer mom S&M books taking over the world like a particularly kinky invasive species it’s a wonder more people haven’t ended up in the ER.

Here’s a couple from the last week or so.  Both from that bastion of pursed lipped disaproval, the Daily Mail. 

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Jeweller found not guilty of ‘Fifty Shades Of Grey’ attack on partner after jury hears she signed a ‘sex slave contract’

A jeweller who whipped his lover with a length of rope during a Fifty Shades Of Grey-inspired sex session was cleared of assault causing actual bodily harm yesterday.

Steven Lock, 43, and his girlfriend planned a ‘master and slave’ role-play fantasy after reading the best-selling novel.

But the woman, who cannot be named for legal reasons, complained he went too far after she was left screaming with pain and with angry red weals on her skin.

Police began an investigation, despite the fact she had written to him promising to be his ‘slave’ and accepting ‘pain’ would be inflicted upon her.

A jury took two hours to find him not guilty after a four-day trial.

Judge David Goodin had told them they should not act as ‘moral guardians or commentators’.

He added: ‘You may not be familiar with the best-selling work of fiction which has spawned both sequels and imitations.

‘What you are concerned with is whether or not the prosecution has proved whether the defendant committed a criminal offence.’

Mr Lock, of Ipswich, said later: ‘I am disgusted that this case was brought to court in the first place. I didn’t do anything wrong.’

The couple had indulged in an ‘adventurous’ sex life for a year after meeting on a dating website, Ipswich Crown Court heard.

They took part in threesomes and bondage sessions and filmed themselves having sex.

The woman, a divorced mother in her forties from Norfolk, sent Mr Lock a letter on August 5 last year, the day before taking part in the fantasy which led to her complaint.

Echoing the contract college graduate Anastasia Steele is asked to sign by businessman Christian Grey in the EL James novel, she wrote: ‘I wish to allow Steven Lock to use me and my body as a slave.

‘I am willing to do anything my master sees fit for me to do. This may include pain if my tasks are not completed to his satisfaction.’

She also had a tattoo in an intimate place which said: ‘This is the property of Steven Lock.’ But the sexual encounter swiftly went wrong, the prosecution said.

Mr Lock put a rope around the woman’s neck, the jury heard, and padlocked her wrist to a chain attached to an eyelet on the floor of his bedroom.

Police said she had been taking a cocaine substitute and drinking alcohol before the brutal sex session.

Local prosecutor Åsa Jonsson said the woman had her mouth stuffed with something which led directly to her death.

‘It is our belief he is directly responsible for her death,’ she said and his trial for manslaughter gets underway next week.

Asked by his barrister, Roger Thomson, if he had read Fifty Shades Of Grey, Mr Lock – who has three previous convictions for assaulting women – replied: ‘That’s where we got the idea from.’

Mr Lock told the jury his lover failed to use a codeword they had agreed upon if either of them wanted to stop.

He denied tightening a rope around her neck but admitted that he ‘pushed the boundaries’ during the encounter. ‘It was supposed to be kinky fun. I didn’t want her to cry,’ he said.

Mr Thomson said: ‘Fifty Shades Of Grey is not a manual, it’s a work of fiction. And this is a case which demonstrates that things can go wrong.’

Mr Lock’s former lover was not at court yesterday and was unavailable for comment.

Fifty Shades Of Grey and the two other books in the trilogy have sold 65million copies around the world since 2011.

Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2266318/Steven-Lock-guilty-Fifty-Shades-Of-Grey-attack-partner-signed-sex-slave-contract.html#ixzz2JGQ59SR5

Swedish man to stand trial for ’50 Shades Of Grey’ sado-masochistic sex game death of girlfriend

A Swedish man is to stand trial for the ‘Fifty Shades of Grey’ killing of his girlfriend in a brutal sado-masochistic sex game which ended in her death.

A 28-year-old German woman was hit 123 times with a wooden blackboard pointer as she was bound up with nylon tights and condoms.

Her 31-year-old ‘master’ said she was a willing ‘sex slave’ in their games.

But after her death police discovered her diary in which she wrote: ‘You once said you did not want to see me in real pain. I am subservient but no masochist.’

The man was charged this week in connection with her death last October.

Police said he raised the alarm when she stopped breathing during their violent sex session and he tried to resuscitate her before the ambulance arrived at his home in Umea, northern Sweden.

The victim was treated for two days in the intensive care ward of a local hospital before her life support machines were switched off.

She had sustained terrible brain damage as a result of her airways being restricted.

The woman was an exchange student who arrived in Sweden to meet her ‘boyfriend’ she had befriended during a previous visit and with whom she kept in contact on the internet.

Nine days later she was dead.

Police said she had been taking a cocaine substitute and drinking alcohol before the brutal sex session.

Local prosecutor Åsa Jonsson said the woman had her mouth stuffed with something which led directly to her death.

‘It is our belief he is directly responsible for her death,’ she said and his trial for manslaughter gets underway next week.

Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2269109/Swedish-man-stand-trial-Fifty-Shades-Grey-sado-masochistic-sex-game-death-girlfriend.html#ixzz2JGQw8B1l
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